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How did she say no...was it like "hell no" or was it "not tonight"?!! It makes a difference!! |
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If she said no, don't sweat it... just move on, hold your head high, and revel in the fact she's missing out on something good. Her loss, Ramses.
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Well, that could imply one of two things- she either want nothing to do with you ("lets just be friends...") or she wants to get laid with no commitment.
I also look at it this way: Avoid her |
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If you can be just friends with her, fine. If not...move on. As hey said, it's her loss! It also could be she just doesn't want to date right now...at least she was honest & didn't lead you on! Sorry, though...I know you had your hopes up. Maybe don't think too much the next time you ask a gal out...just do it without expectations & you may just be surprised!!!
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yeah... well last night i went over to lady #2s house and just hanging out and watched tv... and today i was talking to her about us... like cause we had a rocky past before... and she mentioned that she mentioned that things between us were going really good lately... like we havn't had an arguement in atleast a month now... and i said it makes me think that things would actually work out for us if we wanted to... and she said she wasn't sure about it just yet...
so im definetly gonna give the lady some time... and hope i dont screw anything up... but im just wondering if you have any advice for not screwing anything up... and possibly making this work out... cause im sure it would be great for us both ways... but i know her... and she's thinking all about the things in the past...
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How cool!!! First and foremost...there are no guarentees in life!!!! Next, just because you do have an agruement doesn't mean the relationship's over or in trouble! I didn't learn that until I met hey (I was 41!!!). We argue...at first, I thought it was the end of the world, that we were finished...5 years later, we're still together! There's a thing called picking & choosing your battles wisely!! When you care about someone & the relationship, you learn how to interact with them. With time together, you learn not to bring up stuff that will piss her off when she's already pissed off, etc...
If you really care about her, be yourself, enjoy your time together, be honest & show respect. Another biggie, don't loose yourself or your friends (that goes for her, too). Don't go into this relationship with a defeated attitude. If you think you'll ruin it, you will. Just give it your best shot & go with it! ENJOY!!!!!!! ![]() |
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You know I think I'm gonna slow down on this relationship thing. Maybe I need to get laid first *snickers*
You know the real problem though? I'm always in a freaking hurry. I'm not comfortable sweet talking even a beautiful stranger. Gotta know something about her first, because it can just be humiliating. |
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